Bio

Born and raised in Canada, I moved to Texas in the early 90s and have called it home ever since. As a mother of six and grandmother of four, my life has always been about caring for others. My career was no different—I thrived in roles that allowed me to help people and make a difference.

But when I uncovered traumatic truths, my world shifted. I found myself lost, alone, and in need of the very support I used to provide. In my darkest moments, I turned to journaling, pouring my pain into words. That journey of healing led to the creation of this book, written with the hope that it will serve as a survival guide for anyone facing similar struggles. I’m also completing training to become a Certified PBT Coach (Post Betrayal Transformation).

Book Title:

Deceptive Liaisons
Uncovering my husband’s secret world of sugar babies, escorts, and countless affairs shattered my world. It felt like my entire life had collapsed beneath me, leaving me in a dark, lonely place. But through the pain and devastation, I found the strength to rise, piece by piece, rebuilding myself into someone stronger, wiser, and more resilient than I ever thought possible. Today, I stand here, not just surviving, but thriving—happier, more empowered, and ready to embrace the next chapter of my life.

Betrayal Trauma and Healing:
I’m deeply passionate about helping people through the difficult journey of betrayal trauma. Whether it’s in personal relationships, friendships, or family, betrayal can feel overwhelming. My goal is to provide support, tools, and hope for those who are seeking healing and a way forward.

What to Do When You’ve Been Betrayed:
In those initial moments after discovering betrayal, it’s critical to focus on self-care and emotional safety. I like to share three essential actions that can help you regain your footing during this turbulent time, offering guidance on how to start the healing process in a healthy way.

What Not to Do After Betrayal:
It’s equally important to know what to avoid. I often see people unintentionally sabotaging their own recovery by reacting in ways that prolong the pain. I’ll outline three things to avoid when you first find out you’ve been betrayed, and how steering clear of these can make a real difference in your emotional well-being.

Why This Matters to Me:
This topic is incredibly close to my heart because I’ve seen how betrayal can deeply impact people’s lives, but I’ve also seen how healing is possible. I believe that by sharing knowledge and offering support, we can help others not just survive betrayal, but thrive beyond it.